New Years Resolution for Parents

Here is the January article for my school newsletter. I thought I would share it all with you as it has a great message to parents!

As we begin another new year, many of us are busily making new years resolutions. I came across a wonderful article written by Dr. Russell J. Quaglia and Dr. Sara E. Quay, professors of education at Endicott College. With their permission, I want to share that article with you.

Forget New Year resolutions about losing weight, exercising more, eating healthier, and spending less time at work. Instead, this year make some resolutions that matter, ones that will make a difference in the lives of your children. Make some New Year resolutions that will put you front and center of your children’s education.

In a recent study we found 93% of students say their parents are the number one influence in their lives. Yet only 35% of parents surveyed think they play such a vital role in their child’s life. These statistics are surprising, to say the least. Though what is more surprising–that our children believe we are the greatest influence in their lives, or that we do not think that we are—is hard to say. What is clear, however, is that the areas in which you choose to influence your children should be given great thought and care.

As a parent, one of the most powerful areas in which you can influence your child is through their education. It is you, more than any other individual, who can help your children reach their fullest potential as learners, both today and tomorrow. If you are wondering what you can do in this New Year to support your children in school, here are a few suggestions.
• Celebrate your children’s successes in school, from doing well on tests to not forgetting their lunch.
• Take an interest in your children’s homework (or at least pretend to!)
• Make it a point to communicate with your children’s teachers. You may be surprised what you learn.
• Let your children know that school can and should be fun and enjoyable.
• Be there when your children try something new and succeed. Be there when they fail.
• Be there…...
• Choose to be a positive role model for your children. You are their hero whether you know it or not.
• Remind your children that they are special and that they have something unique to offer their school.
• Take the time to dream with your children about their future because dreams do come true.

We recognize the challenges and triumphs of raising children. This year, embrace parenting with passion and with the understanding that you are the most important person in your child’s life. You do play a key role in the success of your children in school. Rise to the occasion and make a difference in this new year!

Respectfully,

Sally Sansom, Principal